A fallacy that I have really recognized within my life, especially since I started college -Fear of Catastrophic Failure. I have been having terrible anxiety although it's only the only first semester of college, I'm just really fearful of the long run. Will I be able to schedule my classes without conflicting with my work schedule? Will I be able to make all my payments on time? I watch my every move, just everything because I am afraid of everything that could jeopardize my education. I am the first in my family to go to college and I don't want to disappoint them or becoming another statistic. One way I have been coping with this fallacy though has been through meditating with myself; having "me" time. Taking it one day at a time and being in touch with God (no offense) has really allowed me to just chill out. As far as my communicating, I have became more responsible with this fear because it has allowed me to become more resourceful, organized and guided. Each and every day I try not to think too many negative thoughts out what the future may hold, only focusing on my today. We should recognize that faliure isn't always bad, it always you to learn from your mistake(s)
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Do not fear! After entering college, I have also become more fearful of the future in the long run. Though I am studying hard and following my advisers advice in class selection, I feel like I may fall behind and end up graduating late. Or, I feel like I may not be able to keep up with other students, and thus, I will not become successful and find a job in the workplace. There are many worries about the future. But honestly, as long as I am working hard, there will be nothing to regret. Right? Living in this day and age proves stressful. I have never thought of meditating. You have convinced me to try that one day.
ReplyDeleteYeah, I agree with you on having the fear of catastrophes, which could be viewed as the fear of the unknown. I felt the same when I transferred to San Jose states. I was kind of new to the environment, so it was hard to go off my comfort zone and adjust to a new environment and the life style it offers. A lot of thoughts were rushing into my mind, that was confusing, and it happened for a week, which I could not figure out what to do, but with my faith in God, I believed all things are possible through Him. My faith in God made the difference, and I was able to overcome such fear.
ReplyDeleteAmen! I will never again take His love for granted especially cuz He allowed me to make it this far! It's really crazing/amazing.
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